I love when my friends start dating. First you hear all about them. Then you meet them. They fall in love and then make the big announcement that they are moving in together as the next step. How exciting!

It is not uncommon today for couples to live together. It is a great way to spend more time with and get to know each other better. And let’s face it; it is a great way to save money in today’s economy. I have friends that have been together for 5-10+ year, who admit they will probably get married, just not sure when. Yet they hold themselves out as husband and wife to their friends. They have kids, joint bank accounts, and purchase houses with each other. And the rings on their fingers would make you believe they already walked down the aisle, even though you can’t remember the invite to the wedding.

Most people would believe they have a common law marriage. But what is a common law marriage? Black’s Law Dictionary 7th Edition defines it as “a marriage that takes legal effect, without license or ceremony, when a couple live together as husband and wife, intend to be married, and hold themselves out to others as a married couple.” So by definition, yeah, they have a common law marriage. But is it a legal marriage?

The answer is no. States, particularly Arizona, do not recognize common law marriage. A.R.S. 25-111(B)(1) says a marriage contract not valid unless “A license is issued…” You can hold yourselves out as husband and wife, but the law only sees you as companions. You have no legal rights like a licensed marriage does. So what does that mean for you?

If you were to break up, you would not be entitled to the benefits a normal divorce would provide. Although the law will still evaluate child support, you will not get spousal maintenance or will you not be entitled to any community property acquired during the relationship, unless your name is on it.

But let’s say you’re not breaking up because you do have that everlasting love. Not getting that marriage license also has ramifications when it comes to making decisions while you are together that only married couples can make or benefits received. If you are not legally married, you will not be able to receive social security, Medicare, or disability benefits transferred to you. You two won’t qualify for certain health care packages or be able to make medical decisions for each other if need be. You won’t to inherit your loved one’s estate, no matter how long you had been living together. You won’t be able to make burial or other final arrangements. In the moments you need to take care of each other the most, you might have a legal battle to fight as well.

In today’s society where 50% of marriages end in divorce, paired with all the horror stories of friends who have got divorce and the ugly battle that pursues, it is understandable why there is no race to get the license. But it is up to you to decide what is right for you. For me, when I meet the right guy and fall in everlasting love with him that can stand the test of time, I will choose to get the license. But I will also get a premarital agreement, just in case. A girl still has to protect her assets! If you want to have an experienced attorney who will be able to spot these small details and work to defend you aggressively, contact our office and set up a consultation with our incredible Criminal Defense Team.


Written By:

Jolita Bennett, Dodge & Vega PLC



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